Shifting culture: a long game
Intergenerational care centres are an ode to the possibilities of thinking creatively, combining resources and dissolving boundaries. Solving several problems – loneliness, ageism, care, health, housing and learning – at once, it appears to be a win-win scenario.
So much so, that it's puzzling that it hasn't caught on sooner.
Kotoen aside, legislative and economic hurdles could have been enough to stymie the rise of intergenerational care models elsewhere in the world. However, it's possible that cultural attitudes also play a part. Many of us live in societies where 'care' (and ageing in general) is considered embarrassing, shameful and effectively banished to the margins (spatial and mental). While childhood is seen as hopeful, joyful and full of potential – old age is often seen as bleak, depressing and full of fear.
"There is still not complete acceptance of the idea of children and older people sharing the same site, facilities and services, or understanding of the potential business savings from running childcare and eldercare on the same site," says Stephen. There can also be internal cultural challenges. "Not everyone moves to a retirement community to be around children," points out Nancy, "Nor does everyone see the value that an intergenerational experience can bring."
The apparent contradiction between young and old, growth and decline, strength and frailty, may be a mental block to intergenerational care. As it turns out though, we are well-equipped to dance with paradox. Elderly and infirm people can find joy, and in doing so, reduce their loneliness and increase quality of life. Young children can witness and interact with those ageing, and their associated deterioration, without being fearful. In fact, they will normalise it, cultivating more open and resilient characters. And the ripple effects of these outcomes is a more cohesive and connected world for us all.
¹ Someone whose career spans the boundaries of academia and practice. In the case of intergenerational care, the term may include childcare, aged care, social work, health and education professionals.
² Brokered by AIIP with many collaborating universities around Australia