Fifteen years on from that evening of discovery, I am in King's Cross again. My own life has changed. I'm a husband and a father. Because my writer's income wouldn't stretch to a shoebox in the city these days, I no longer live in London.
King's Cross has also changed. An elegant water feature in black stone trickles through a deep courtyard between offices and people drink white wine in the shade. Streets of anonymous blocks, strangely quiet buildings advertising co-working spaces or trendy new forms of city living that not enough people seem to want. Shops and boutiques with abstract names selling expensive lamps.
We find ourselves in the Samsung Store. There's nobody else there, no queue for the activities that are meant to showcase the corporation's technology: a machine that paints a wooden egg to visitor's specifications. Another that takes a picture of the children and prints out a collage artwork of their faces. It's made to look like torn paper, but it's all printed – a simulated computer version of that human instinct to cobble things together out of whatever is to hand. The machines are clever and fun, but this is creativity in the service of profit and it feels perfunctory and soulless.
King's Cross is glossy and sleek these days. There are some fine new public spaces and architecture to enjoy. Thomas Heatherwick's sweeping re-invention of Coal Drops Yard, the striking ironwork of Gasholder Park, the teasing fountains of Granary Square. But something has been lost along the way.
There are none of the rough edges, the neglected patches, the creative mess that makes a place feel lived in. How could you make your mark in a place like this? When a place is so carefully designed and curated, what room is there for your ideas and your participation?
Perhaps that's why, after a decade of moving from site to site around the redevelopments, the Skip Garden is getting its first permanent home. King's Cross needs its pocket of loving green anarchy more than ever, and Global Generation has secured a triangular site on what used to be a car park. It's a little smarter than it used to be, but the skips are still there, painted white and lined up down one side. It's now called the Story Garden, a name chosen by the community of volunteers and reflecting both the genesis of the garden and the personal stories of the thousands of people who have tended it over the years. If you're ever in London, you're likely to pass through King's Cross. All the rail lines lead there. Step out of the station. Take a walk, and you'll find the beating heart of the district – in a skip.